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God, Is My Obededience Not Enough?: When Holy Hair Fails (by ForEverBlessed)

Posted on 09. Jul, 2008 by admin in HMH Articles

God, Is My Obedience Not Enough?: When Holy Hair Fails

The following is a excerpted from a June 2003 forum thread (GoodNewsCafe) in which a poster named, ForeverBlessed, shares her frustrations as a believer in trusting that “Holy Hair” could bring God’s favor and protection in her life and not getting the expected results.  The post has since been edited by the author as per her request.

Surely, this is an unintended consequence. Yet, when doctrine is based in error it produces confusion, frustration and doubt.

The writer’s views on uncut hair do not necessarily reflect the views of the contributors of the blog site or it’s readers.
It should provide pause, however, no matter what your view is on uncut hair to the disillusionment that Holy Hair doctrine can bring.

Source: GoodNewsCafe
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I can no longer believe that I need to do anything or sacrifice anything to obtain grace, mercy or favor before my God. We are not saved by works, and neither can we obtain favor through works.

Eph 2:9 Not of works, lest any man should boast.

He is there for me, covering me with his grace and mercy because I am blood bought child of his. Anything I need, I find in him, but only through his sacrifice.
 
I refrained from cutting my hair for about three years. 1999-2002. I prayed every day asking God’s protection on my family. I didn’t like my hair, but felt I was making a sacrifice with my hair, and God would honor it.
 
Growing up, I never actually cut my hair until I had a bad perm, and I was an adult. As a teen, I would cut some wispy bangs, but my length was never touched, but it was only shoulder length. I will agree, that I just followed a UPCI rule.
 
When I moved to MI, I had people trying to make me understand that I wasn’t supposed to trim my hair. I faced a lot of judgmental attitudes. Long hair, I could understand, no problem. Uncut hair, I didn’t. I did want to fit in though. You would have to understand my personality. I would do about anything, if required, if it meant I was more acceptable in the UPCI ranks. Might not like it, but would do it. That is just me.
 
I had also met a friend that I admired and respected in MI. My hair being trimmed really bothered her. I agreed to study it. I asked my pastor about it for guidance, he gave me a Ruth’s first book. I read it. Wow, you mean by keeping my hair uncut, I could have special power in prayer, and be a rear guard in protection for my family? You notice how sometimes we are so willing to want to help things along by works, and not trust God. I swallowed it hook, line, and sinker. There wasn’t much I wouldn’t do to protect my family. They mean everything to me.
 
My husband has a past history of drug abuse and was in and out of church.  I honestly asked God to keep him from the pull that the World had on him with drugs. I told God that I would sacrifice my hair, my own personal feelings or fleshly desires concerning my hair. I would not cut it. I asked God to honor it.
 
Just before Christmas of 2001, I found evidence of drug usage with my husband again. I really never confided in anyone, it took months before I even went to talk to my pastor about it. My hair was very long and was still uncut.  I cried, why didn’t God honor my sacrifice? I hated my hair past my backside. I couldn’t wear it down, it was too long. At least one foot of it was thin and straggly. I had to wear my hair up all the time, and it made me look older. I just didn’t understand. When I asked why??? Why could this happen when I had kept my end of the bargain so to speak? My pastor told me that God couldn’t go against someone else’s will.
 
I decided if I wasn’t able to keep my family protected through prayer with my hair, then I don’t have the desire to keep it uncut. Keep it long as my glory, yes, but not unkempt from not trimming.
 
Then I faced another obstacle. I wanted to trim my hair to a more manageable length, but now I was under FEAR.. You see, Ruth teaches in her book, of God removing the Glory from your life when you cut or trim your hair. I was then fearful of cutting my hair. I would cry… I was torn. I no longer believed what she taught, but now was held by fear. I was fearful, and we all know that fear is not of God. My husband was making comments about my hair never being worn down, he like it down. I told him I couldn’t wear it down with scraggly uneven ends. He told me to trim them up a bit. I was fearful, but I did trim about two inches of very, very thin hair at the very ends. It wasn’t even enough to notice, just cleaned it up some.
 
Three weeks later, my world,( so I thought at the time), really began to crumble around me. I had the house fire, and then a few weeks later, my husband left and basically deserted his family. What else bad could happen to me now? I found myself looking for the next blow. The enemy tormented me that I was the fault of everything that had happened. The torment and heaviness that weighed on my shoulders, as the devil tried to lay this blame on me. Even though I was aware of his drug usage some eight months earlier. After all the details began to be revealed to me after he left, did I realize, I am not the one responsible for what happened. He had been actively participating in everything long, long before I decided to trim a little from my hair.
 
The house fire turned out to be one of the biggest blessings. The night of the fire, finances were not so Good, my husband wasn’t working good, pot really keeps him from being motivated. Our bills were all behind. Six hours after the fire, I was cut a check for $2,000 and told that that should keep me through the weekend and they would take care of everything Monday morning. I took that money and paid our bills up. To me that was just the first blessing from that fire. No one was hurt, I had everything replaced for new, no burn damage to my things. What was replaced was just from smoke and damage from firefighters.
 
God had his hand of protection on my family that night. Surely Mercy and Grace did follow me, no one was hurt. My old house had so many code violations, that were all brought up to code and paid for by my insurance policy. I got a complete new interior remodeling upstairs, and that way the only part of the house we hadn’t started on in our remodeling. I don’t look at the fire being destruction being brought upon me.
 
Bro. Jim Yohe helped me understand during this time that God is my Father, and even if trimming my hair was going against him, the punishment just didn’t fit the crime. Would my natural Father who loved me, ever bring upon me hurt and pain for something so trivial? Why then would my Heavenly Father, who loves me that much more, allow that to happen to me. Bad things just happen to good people.
 
I have done a lot of studying about the hair, I have prayed and even fasted. I had been tormented so, that I fasted two days for the purpose only of hair. I was studying one night, and began to cry when the following scripture popped out to me. I felt such a peace as tears continued to flow down my cheeks.

Rom 14:22 Hast thou faith? have it to thyself before God. Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth.
 
I am one that has suffered much from condemnation placed on me by other people. I serve God with all honesty of heart, and I don’t condemn other’s. Why do they feel the need to condemn me or my life? 
 
As a women, I embrace the femininity that God gave me. I love long hair, I just like to trim it and keep it looking nice.
Trim:  v. trimmed, trim·ming, trims – To make neat or tidy by clipping, smoothing, or pruning:
 
After researching it, I just don’t see the scripture as saying long equals uncut. If God gave me beautiful hair as my glory, I want to keep it nice.
 
God has dealt with me concerning being in subjection to my pastor, and his teachings. God is working on me, and I am doing better, but submitting to his beliefs is the only reason, because I do not believe it for myself.
 
edited from original 12-25-09 Lisa Taylor aka Foreverblessed

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